Co-dependency: Don’t love me too much or I’ll have to hurt you

Sep 12, 11 Co-dependency: Don’t love me too much or I’ll have to hurt you

Posted by in INFP

My favourite group on Facebook has got me thinking again. (The INFP group. If you’re one, join!) They asked whether we were (generally speaking, as opposed to sexually) sadistic or masochist, and of course, everyone says they’re masochist, except me who confess to having sadistic feelings every once and again. (If...

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You Can’t Change Your Mind: It makes you happy.

Aug 01, 11 You Can’t Change Your Mind: It makes you happy.

Posted by in Childfree, INFP

I have to share this video, because it relates to two of the main topics of my site; Being childfree and being an INFP. It relates to being INFP, because we tend to have trouble making up our minds, because we want to experience everything, try everything, pick every career path available to us, and sticking to it tends to be...

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INFP ‘s fight the good fight

Jul 29, 11 INFP ‘s fight the good fight

Posted by in INFP

I had a very unusual experience today. I’ve been active on an INFP group on Facebook for a couple of weeks now, completely exhilarated by the similarities of the people there, sharing similar core values, enjoying an understanding deeper than on any forum or group I’ve ever been a part of. Today, there was a topic that...

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I am a good friend, but I am not loyal

Jun 09, 11 I am a good friend, but I am not loyal

Posted by in Introspective

I came to think about my loyalty as a friend through a bit of a Freudian slip. I said to a new friend that “I make friends easily, but I don’t keep them”. She looked a bit shocked and scared for the future of our friendship, so I attempted to calm her a bit… “I mean, I don’t let most of them...

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Passive Dominance

Mar 03, 11 Passive Dominance

Posted by in Introspective

Last night I was thinking about a psychological study conducted on children. The study was carried out by giving a child a marshmallow and telling him or her that if they wait until the researcher comes back into the room without eating the marshmallow, they’ll get another one. The purpose was to see if they could resist the...

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A Heureka-moment like no other

Feb 04, 11 A Heureka-moment like no other

Posted by in Introspective

I’ve already written about finding my purpose in two posts before this, and this is the “part 3″. I am somewhat gob-smacked by this myself, as I thought I knew myself through and through, but I had still managed to ignore something very important. I have always identified with artists, writers, mostly. I still do. I don’t...

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