Comments on: Biological clock ticking? http://www.sebastyne.net/2009/07/biological-clock-ticking/ Wed, 17 Mar 2010 01:00:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Sebastyne http://www.sebastyne.net/2009/07/biological-clock-ticking/comment-page-1/#comment-12749 Sebastyne Wed, 22 Jul 2009 12:18:42 +0000 http://www.sebastyne.net/?p=1029#comment-12749 Well, sometimes you kind of do. If you've been in love a number of times, and gotten married and are very happy and at 33 you still have never wanted kids, it's pretty safe to say it's not going to happen. I've gotten over the above too, so things are back to normal... Well, sometimes you kind of do. If you've been in love a number of times, and gotten married and are very happy and at 33 you still have never wanted kids, it's pretty safe to say it's not going to happen. I've gotten over the above too, so things are back to normal…

]]> By: Rene Rencontre http://www.sebastyne.net/2009/07/biological-clock-ticking/comment-page-1/#comment-12748 Rene Rencontre Wed, 22 Jul 2009 11:42:08 +0000 http://www.sebastyne.net/?p=1029#comment-12748 Well when i was 23 years old I just graduated and i was ready to start working and make a career but after 1 year i met one special guy and I loved him so much, subsequently we get married and had a kid :) so in the life you never know what is gonna happen after! Well when i was 23 years old I just graduated and i was ready to start working and make a career but after 1 year i met one special guy and I loved him so much, subsequently we get married and had a kid :) so in the life you never know what is gonna happen after!

]]> By: Sebastyne http://www.sebastyne.net/2009/07/biological-clock-ticking/comment-page-1/#comment-12675 Sebastyne Wed, 22 Jul 2009 07:18:42 +0000 http://www.sebastyne.net/?p=1029#comment-12675 Well, sometimes you kind of do. If you've been in love a number of times, and gotten married and are very happy and at 33 you still have never wanted kids, it's pretty safe to say it's not going to happen. I've gotten over the above too, so things are back to normal... Well, sometimes you kind of do. If you've been in love a number of times, and gotten married and are very happy and at 33 you still have never wanted kids, it's pretty safe to say it's not going to happen. I've gotten over the above too, so things are back to normal…

]]> By: Rene Rencontre http://www.sebastyne.net/2009/07/biological-clock-ticking/comment-page-1/#comment-12674 Rene Rencontre Wed, 22 Jul 2009 06:42:08 +0000 http://www.sebastyne.net/?p=1029#comment-12674 Well when i was 23 years old I just graduated and i was ready to start working and make a career but after 1 year i met one special guy and I loved him so much, subsequently we get married and had a kid :) so in the life you never know what is gonna happen after! Well when i was 23 years old I just graduated and i was ready to start working and make a career but after 1 year i met one special guy and I loved him so much, subsequently we get married and had a kid :) so in the life you never know what is gonna happen after!

]]> By: Seattle House Cleaning http://www.sebastyne.net/2009/07/biological-clock-ticking/comment-page-1/#comment-12668 Seattle House Cleaning Thu, 16 Jul 2009 15:42:04 +0000 http://www.sebastyne.net/?p=1029#comment-12668 Awesome blog!<br><br><3 Lindsay Awesome blog!

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]]> By: Sebastyne http://www.sebastyne.net/2009/07/biological-clock-ticking/comment-page-1/#comment-12659 Sebastyne Mon, 06 Jul 2009 14:24:01 +0000 http://www.sebastyne.net/?p=1029#comment-12659 No, that was beautiful. :) I'm not convinced though, in my case. I have a tattoo and I haven't really wanted another one. :D It's pretty cool, but mainly because I can't see it properly as it's on my back. A bit like a child really. You can't see it properly because it's yours. :p <br><br>The trouble with deciding on having kids is, you really can't take anyone's advice on it. No matter how many happy parents I know and see and hear of, I know there are people who have regretted having children. Those people are hidden and they don't declare their regret out loud, because... Well that's one thing you will never ever admit if you have a decent bone in your body. They only come out on online websites and confess their regret anonymously, if they even dare to do that, if they even dare to admit it to themselves.<br><br>You only get one go at it, and the only safe option is not to have them. You can't send them back. You can even have a tattoo removed, but a child will be there forever, if not in person, as a massive guilt if you adopted him/her out or a massive sadness if they die before you. A guy can pack up and leave if he decides it's just too much. The mom will take care of the kid and if you miss the kid too much you can have him back for a weekend and pretend to be a good dad and get a clear conscience for the next couple of weeks. If a mom leaves a kid, she'll be the worst person ever, unspeakably despicable and what not. There's no way out.<br><br>I'm really not the mothering type, not even if I wanted to be. I panic if there's 2 items on my daily to do list. You can see how that could be a problem. :p No, that was beautiful. :) I'm not convinced though, in my case. I have a tattoo and I haven't really wanted another one. :D It's pretty cool, but mainly because I can't see it properly as it's on my back. A bit like a child really. You can't see it properly because it's yours. :p

The trouble with deciding on having kids is, you really can't take anyone's advice on it. No matter how many happy parents I know and see and hear of, I know there are people who have regretted having children. Those people are hidden and they don't declare their regret out loud, because… Well that's one thing you will never ever admit if you have a decent bone in your body. They only come out on online websites and confess their regret anonymously, if they even dare to do that, if they even dare to admit it to themselves.

You only get one go at it, and the only safe option is not to have them. You can't send them back. You can even have a tattoo removed, but a child will be there forever, if not in person, as a massive guilt if you adopted him/her out or a massive sadness if they die before you. A guy can pack up and leave if he decides it's just too much. The mom will take care of the kid and if you miss the kid too much you can have him back for a weekend and pretend to be a good dad and get a clear conscience for the next couple of weeks. If a mom leaves a kid, she'll be the worst person ever, unspeakably despicable and what not. There's no way out.

I'm really not the mothering type, not even if I wanted to be. I panic if there's 2 items on my daily to do list. You can see how that could be a problem. :p

]]> By: Cucconen http://www.sebastyne.net/2009/07/biological-clock-ticking/comment-page-1/#comment-12658 Cucconen Mon, 06 Jul 2009 13:20:17 +0000 http://www.sebastyne.net/?p=1029#comment-12658 Hi,<br>Children are like tattoos. First you think and play with the thougt to have one. "Should I take it, what if it's something I can't stand..." Then finally you go and let someone to hit you with "love ink". There it is your first one, and you think that it's the coolest thing in the world and you show it to everybody. Then time goes by and you want another... <br><br>Personally I don't have tattoos. I think that I will never do that. But I have a son and it is the coolest in the world. It's much more cool than playing in a rock band or free-riding at the alps with snowboard... It's better than Elvis. I still do and enjoy a lot of playing rock and doing extreme stuff (And Elvis is ok too).<br><br>Now I have 2 burnig loves in my heart. They are the brightest lighthouses in this universe. Those guides me home from the deserts and the wild oceans no matter what. I assure you Seb, you can have both. Enjoyable and interesting life and a child. I must also underline that the amount of respect or how seriously I take someone does not rely on the quantity of children she/he has. I respect you. You are beautiful ;) Hi,
Children are like tattoos. First you think and play with the thougt to have one. “Should I take it, what if it's something I can't stand…” Then finally you go and let someone to hit you with “love ink”. There it is your first one, and you think that it's the coolest thing in the world and you show it to everybody. Then time goes by and you want another…

Personally I don't have tattoos. I think that I will never do that. But I have a son and it is the coolest in the world. It's much more cool than playing in a rock band or free-riding at the alps with snowboard… It's better than Elvis. I still do and enjoy a lot of playing rock and doing extreme stuff (And Elvis is ok too).

Now I have 2 burnig loves in my heart. They are the brightest lighthouses in this universe. Those guides me home from the deserts and the wild oceans no matter what. I assure you Seb, you can have both. Enjoyable and interesting life and a child. I must also underline that the amount of respect or how seriously I take someone does not rely on the quantity of children she/he has. I respect you. You are beautiful ;)

]]> By: Brie http://www.sebastyne.net/2009/07/biological-clock-ticking/comment-page-1/#comment-12654 Brie Mon, 06 Jul 2009 06:16:01 +0000 http://www.sebastyne.net/?p=1029#comment-12654 We all get those thoughts from time ot time...I sometimes think "Wouldn't it be great ot have 4 year old to share things with and help explore the wolrd. Then I realize that the kid will be there permanently and won't "visit and go home at my whim" and the feeling subsides. <br><br>Maybe someday I will have child...even adpot one but right now...I am just not in a situation or with a man that would make me say, "Yes, the situation is right and I want this." I may never be in that situation.<br><br>Until then I send penapls/friends baby gifts when they have children and enjoy watching their children grow up. We all get those thoughts from time ot time…I sometimes think “Wouldn't it be great ot have 4 year old to share things with and help explore the wolrd. Then I realize that the kid will be there permanently and won't “visit and go home at my whim” and the feeling subsides.

Maybe someday I will have child…even adpot one but right now…I am just not in a situation or with a man that would make me say, “Yes, the situation is right and I want this.” I may never be in that situation.

Until then I send penapls/friends baby gifts when they have children and enjoy watching their children grow up.

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